x It is my opinion and I would like to say that the lifestyle most of us are leading a lifestyle which is mostly dependent on other's perception about us. Right from the career we choose, to the clothes we wear are so much dependent on other's opinion. Just look at it. Let us consider the choice of a vehicle we want to purchase. Frankly speaking the main purpose of buying a vehicle is to make it helpful for us to move from one place to another. Isn't it? But we focus more on the brand of the vehicle because if we buy a vehicle which is not trending then we will begin to feel that we may not be accepted. Let us say one wants to buy a car and his or her budget is around 4 to 5 lakhs. Let us say the person decides to buy an Alto car. But immediately right from the spouse, parents, relatives and friend’s perception begins to take an upper hand rather than the actual necessity. So the person is in a dilemma and begins to feel a sense of obligation to buy a hig...
The question to be answered is "how to develop your predominant thought to be in sync with whatever you want in life?" The answer is the human emotions or feeling. So whatever you are feeling, it is a feedback to you whether your predominant thoughts are on track or not. So now the next question is how to take charge of your feelings. In order to be in the right feeling stage, there are two options . First option is external source. External source may be in the form of watching videos or listening to your favorite music or reading inspirational books of your choice or interacting with people who have achieved something in life or listening lectures on spirituality. The internal source is all about your dream or what is it, that you want to achieve in life. I always believe that internal source is the best way because it is self dependent and more you use it, the more stronger it will become. However, sometimes you may choose the external source for inspiration to...
I believe that unless and until we do not have an experience involving ourselves, we cannot strengthen our belief. The point I am trying to drive home is that, when we undergo an experience personally, the effect on our mind will be manifold times more than just knowing about it. For instance let us consider a situation where you want to strengthen your belief on your self –confidence. You have option of reading books on self-confidence or go through several articles on self confidence on the internet or you can talk to successful people or you can watch videos on YouTube on self-confidence. But I believe that it finally boils down to your own experience where you have to display self –confidence. So let us say that you are working for an organization and your reporting manager has assigned you a very responsible job and the job involves selecting the right person for a leadership role. Here you must display self –confidence. In fact there is no option for you. T...
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