Power of Passion
Passion is all about our innermost desires or dreams or
aspirations we have and it is very subjective. Some people say that passion
comes from external source and some say it is purely internal. I believe it is
intrinsically driven.
Whenever we are in a good mood time invariably feels like it
is flying and on the other hand, when our emotional mood is not good, it is
quite opposite. Why does this happen?
I have experienced
that whenever we are in a good state of mind , we get so much involved and
immersed in the activity whatever we may be doing, that we completely lose
track of the passage of time. I can relate this to the Transcendental
Meditation or “Trans state”. I consider these moments as the most productive
time of our life . If you can recall whenever you love what you are doing, we
are not at all worried about anything else other than the activity at the
moment. The activity may be just watching a movie or sport event or a drama or
at a music concert or reading an exciting novel or playing your favourite sport,
whatever it is , we are so much focussed, that, we are literally unaware of the
normal things we do like eating or sleeping. This is exactly what happens when
you are in meditation is what I think. So the bottom line, is when we are in
love or passionate about the activity we are involved, the time factor will completely
disappear from our mind. So, what I think is that unless and until we discover
what is the innermost passion we have, we just cannot do things productively.
I think that some time needs to be invested, right from
early age to find out what is our true passion. Unfortunately, our education
system in India, is not conducive for this type of thought process. We all have
been programmed right from childhood that we must focus on getting excellent
marks in our examination and get a secured job. Of course, off late we are
witnessing a paradigm shift in some youngsters, where they are yearning to
become employers rather than employee. In a country like India, it is sad but
true that these type of thoughts are not encouraged even by the parents. This
is probably because the parents feel that it is extremely unsafe to become an
entrepreneur. So, I think that this thought needs to be planted like a seed in
the children, right from school. More importance must be given to the likes and
dislikes of the child, that is , the parents must take the time and effort to
understand what exactly their child likes and what they dislike. Who else can
understand the child more than the parents, particularly the mother. I am not
saying that importance must not be given to the studies. My point is there is
no need to evaluate children through examinations, rather they can evaluate
just by conducting viva or having group discussions, instead of examinations.
This is my point of view.
Now coming back to being productive, we can clearly that
everything boils down to our burning passion or dream. Unfortunately, most of
us either suppress our dreams or totally give up our dreams. Only a handful of
people go on to live their dreams and we call them as successful people. So
these so called successful people never waste their time and always are
productive.
Now let us analyse what exactly do these successful people
do different than others. Firstly they are absolutely clear in their mind about
what is it that they want from life. Secondly they do not have an iota of a
doubt whether their dream will work or not. That is their belief system is rock
solid. These people have a sense of hundred percent certainty that it will
work. Do we have any doubt that our name is so and so. Do we have any doubt
that we are human beings.This is the level of certainty, one must develop to
achieve the dreams within. What I am trying to say is that the level of
certainty is so high that they cannot see anything else other than their
dreams. It is like they can literally visualize their dream already completed
and manifested. In fact they live as if they are experiencing the reality right
now. This is nothing but the popular “Law
of Attraction” . Thirdly they start taking action everyday be it bits and
pieces or lot of action. They always have the dream in their mind and take
action everyday , which is going to lead them to their eventual dream. Sometimes
the actions may not fetch the desired result, but the burning desire within is
so strong enough that they are ready to keep persisting. I always like to cite
the instance of the great Sir Thomas Elva Edison, whom we all know is the
inventor of the incandescent bulb. But do you know how many times he failed and
how much money he had to literally burn? In fact he failed more than a thousand
times. How many of us are ready to keep persisting in spite of failing so many
times. Let alone thousand times, even two or three failures is more than enough
for most of us to quit, isn’t it? But Mr.Edison went on and on and on until he
got what he wanted. That is called living your passion. If you observe in
Mr.Edison’s instance , it boiled down to, clarity of his dream, self belief and
no self doubt which gave him strength to carry on and on and on.
Conclusion:
Finally it is also the exercise of will power not just for a
few days or few months, the will power must be exercised until the dream is
attained. This will power can be only strengthened when we are consistently
taking repeated actions day in and day out. That is one needs to follow a ritual
until the dream is attained and that can happen if and only if we are living
our passion.
Dinkar Jagadish Rao,
Certified Master Neuro
Linguistic Trainer,
Certified First Degree Self Hynotist,
Certified Third Degree Reiki
Master,
Personality Development Trainer,
Soft Skills Trainer, Sales Trainer.
How true!!!! Thank you
ReplyDeleteAgree with whatever you wrote. Great blog.
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